Wednesday, September 28, 2011

When he criying for no reason

Mammma..mmammma...yes, I heard his voice with my eyes half open."Here I am, Addin.....Where you think you will going.Come here my little boy".Each single night I get  thru on  this.So, I thought, might be Addin waking up at night crying because of he start change his month or because of teething or need some milk. Dude, I was wrong - refer for baby center, on this age. Baby has new behavior (seperation anxiety), thus  makes Addin misses his parents and crying worried if his Ummi and Abi leave him without return back.Ok, I get it. Other thing I would like to share with you guy : If we  as parents think that we can spoiling our babies this some advise:

Young babies are completely spoil-proof. Your baby needs all the care and attention you can give. Ignore the advice of well-meaning relatives who think babies need to learn independence. Instead, listen to your parental instinct — that inner voice that tells you to comfort your baby when he cries.

"Spoiled children" have learned to use negative behavior to get what they want. But your baby is too young to purposefully manipulate or annoy you. He cries to communicate his needs, whether they're for a snack, a dry diaper, or a little cuddling with Mom or Dad. When you respond quickly to your baby, you're building his sense of self-worth. You're also establishing a foundation of trust that can last for years to come.

If you give your baby prompt attention, he'll feel more secure and less anxious, giving him the courage to explore the world on his own. And once he understands that you take his cries seriously, he'll be less likely to cry for no reason. In the long run, responding quickly to your baby's needs will make him less clingy and demanding, not more.

By the time your baby is 6 to 8 months old, he'll be paying close attention to cause and effect — noticing, for instance, that his bowl falls when he drops it from the highchair. He'll also start to see a direct link between his actions and your responses. At this point it's okay to set some limits. If your baby starts crying to get something he doesn't need, hold your ground and give him a hug when he calms down. Similarly, give hugs and praise for good behavior and gently redirect him when he's doing something hazardous.

The right blend of love and guidance will eventually help your child understand his place in the world. But for now, your focus should be on giving him as much attention and comfort as you can. No matter how much you give, it's not more than he needs.



source from : baby center and dumex mama careline.

1 comment:

  1. Good post, zie.. i really appreciate with all the thoughts that u had shared today!!love u always my friend!! miss our old times!!

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